I don't really know if this is the right sub for this but I just feel like I need to vent this.
I'm sick of the things I see online from both men and women generalizing each other constantly.
I've seen women say men are inherently out to use women/are violent.
I've seen men say women only want men to use them for money/status.
These things are true of SOME people, NOT ALL.
I'm a guy who hasn't dated in years, but if I ever find the girl I'm looking for, I'd love to make her happy to the best of my ability and support her in whatever she wants to do.
I've had some great female friends over the years that have been there for me without wanting anything in return.
There are a lot of scumbags in this world but there are also a lot of great normal people who want the best for those around them out there. Just because you ran into 10 jerks in a row doesn't mean all guys or all girls are all like that.
It almost feels dumb to say because it's such a basic thing but, TREAT EVERYONE AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND TRY TO BE NICE TO EACHOTHER. It's not always easy, but it is worth it.
Thanks for coming to my Ted talk, hope everyone gets home safely.
Hmm.. Mad at how the world works?
Don’t hate the player, hate the game ?
My personal line is: I didn’t make up the rules, take it up with Jesus.
While you continue to fight the good fight and strive for that social justice. Just keep in mind that:
Men are violent. Men want pussy, all of it, we might even rape you for it(a fact no woman should ever be naive about). We also don’t think emotionally. Which is great for killing for food and creating civilization. Not so great for yah know, caring about much else.
Women think with their feels. They do want all your money. Because in these times money is dominance. And boy does that get them frothy. Oh and women generally don’t take responsibility for anything.. yea yea equality. It sounds good. Sure. Until something goes wrong. Then it’s pussy pass time.
Anywho.. these are the facts of life.
The person you are looking for... doesn’t exist.